On a purely physical level, women enjoy sex a LOT more than men do.
Most women totally mess dirty talk up because they try to treat MEN like they’re WOMEN.
The only erogenous zone that matters on a guy is his IMAGINATION.
The reason guys don’t get the same physical thrill out of sex women do is because guys are so uptight about their own bodies and their own pleasure.
So they need dirty words to intensify their own pleasure. Here are the reasons why:
1. Testosterone doesn’t just make grow hair on men’s chest; it also turns them all wolfish and desperate to mate with as many women as possible.
2. Being desired, praised and seen as a desirable man who almost-magically turned women into a quivering ball of post-coital pleasure pudding is actually MORE important to a man than his own orgasm.
3. Dirty talk, coming of a woman, shows that you’re engaged in what’s going on, that you’re interested in his pleasure as well as yours and taps into the deep, primal images he’s got running through his head 24 hours a day.
Deep in their hearts, most men harbor a longing to be seen as so sexy and powerful and dominant and MASCULINE.
This is what dirty language makes for men