Today you will learn to find out who is who in your
social environment. In other words, you will find access to real feelings and
attitudes of people you deal with.
If you are afraid to discover the truth about your
friends and people you care, you’d better quit this article. Usually, it
happens to those who are scared to remain alone, without social surroundings
and prefer to play friends and lovers.
1. You must be alone at home or in the room. Sit
quietly and comfortably with the intention to discover the truth.
2. You will use the opposite wall as the screen for images
projection. On the wall you will be putting images of people, one after
3. Put the image of the most important person to you
on the wall. If you are not skilled at creating images, take their photograph.
4. Watch and study the person for some time.
Does this person turn away from you?
What is coming from them: coldness, envy, competitive
Or is their smile/look warm, encouraging and
Are there waves of pleasure, friendliness and love
coming from him/her?
5. You may even ask this person “What do you want from
me?” But this is not necessary. By doing this you will be interfering into
another person’s mind and secrets.
The aim of this method is to feel another person, using irrational consciousness. This unreasonable
part of you can elicit only feelings and sensations. Thank this part for active
cooperation after you finish.
To increase your prosperity, talk about
your abundance. Words are important. Everything you say and mean has the
potential to create the reality you experience.
The universe responds to your positive
talk. Even if you do not have something you want in your life right now, if you
begin to talk and act as if you are certain you will have it, you will draw to
you the circumstances to have it.
Speak of what is good in your life right
now, and how positive you feel about the future.
Speak to others of your confidence and
trust in yourself, without emphasizing your lack. Your friends carry an image
of you, and when you think of yourself you pick up their pictures.
If you speak to others of your prosperity,
they will think of you as prosperous; they will carry positive mental pictures
Your authentic friends and those, who love you, will
be really, really happy for you. They will be admiring you! You might feel that
they support or ‘talk’ to you with good words, and congratulate you. You might even
feel some warm and nice friendly human energy, coming in waves to your body…
Those who pretend to be your friends will switch their
attention to other issues and people. They do not need your success or your prosperity.
In some cases, people feel somehow, that they are being criticized or there
appears unpleasant sensation about this and that person, that you consider your
Talk to those you love or care; share your happiness,
desires or sorrow. You will be supported, answered. The loving you universe conducts and only positive feelings…
Malicious, nasty or ‘fake friendship’ feelings or
attitudes come through unhappy human ways. They have nothing in common with
Tomorrow I will give you a reliable method to find out
who is who in your environment.
Are you courageous in this meaning? If positive, then
you are talented and creative!
Failures are ‘wrong’ directions and destinations… Did
you know that?
If you had failed at some project or ideas or dreams implementation,
then you took somebody else’s concept for achievement. It was not yours!!!
Find out what
you love to do and turn it into the project.
“What you love to do” is what makes you really happy,
irrelevant to what other people think!
To escape failures and disappointments people plan
their lives and activities beforehand.
Very often these predictable activities and events
cause boredom, i.e. a well-organized monotony and dullness. When you meet and experience
nothing new (for the fear of disappointment), you get stuck to habits,
predictable relationships and environment.
This is how addictions and dependences are formed and
Are you interesting to new and brilliant people?
P.S. Failures cause strong negative emotions, if you
have not powerful positive ones, love adventures including.
‘Fine Art America’ Gallery published yesterday some of
my fluffy pictures and creates posters, prints and greeting cards out of them. Most
of my pictures are sold, but prints are available. The Gallery creates prints
in beautiful frames of different size and sends artworks worldwide with their
certificate of authenticity.
The technique I use is ‘woolen aquarelle’ made in
needle felting manner. Spanish Ministry of Culture classifies my unusual pictures
as belonging to ‘Expressionism’.
Best human feelings can be easily expressed by
delicate woolen fibers instead of paints. These pictures enlighten your soul,
home and spirits. You can caress the pictures by your hands and experience love
and human warmth.
Natalia Levis-Fox. “Tenerezza a Roma” (Tenderness in Rome).
Warm, tender lovely
are implemented in
bright and gentle flowers of spring.
2013. 100% wool on artificial fur. Size: 119 X 68 cm.
"Once we know or own weaknesses they cease to do us any
How to do it?
1. Make a
list of things you think you are weak at (habits, character traits, etc).
May be it is not very pleasant process at first
sight. But it is fun. It may turn out, that your habit is not your weakness at
For instance, you have been trying to quit
smoking. You blame yourself for the ‘absence of strong will’. And you know that
you have a strong will and you are known everywhere for being a ‘strong willed person’.
In reality there is nothing wrong with your
will. You apply it successfully in extraordinary situations.
2. Explore positive intentions hiding behind
this habit by asking the question:
“How does this
habit serve me?”
In case with
...it may turn out
that this process helps you:
to be part of the smoking community, you belong
to (ex, friends, co-workers)
to fill in gaps in communication
to dissociate from unpleasant situations
to close your self from foreign influence (some people
like to influence others)
to hide confusion
to veil your own attitude to somebody you
to experience pleasure
to resolve unpleasant situations
to intensify pleasant experience in a safe mode, i.e. in presence of
objects of your personal liking
You can’t always live in a strong will. It causes physical pain. Smoking
adds some entertaining (distracting) experience.
Nobody says it is good for your health, but smokers prefer to think
differently. They insist that smoking is something positive they do for
Explore your ‘weakness’ and find positive intentions behind each ‘feeble’
"Once we know or own weaknesses they cease to do us any
"It doesn't matter how many say it
cannot be done or how many people have tried it before; it's important to
realize that whatever you're doing, it's your first attempt at it."
Have you ever wanted something so badly, but it fell apart after you did
everything in your power to make it happen?
Then the ‘Goal Trauma’ is blocking
your path to success!
With trauma, you become much more conservative about thinking big and
you avoid getting your hopes up when setting new goals.
Instead of approaching them with a fresh and willing attitude, you feel
stressed and anxious and are less resilient when challenges occur.
Here is something to do right now to get free from Goal Trauma…
Think about and old event and ask yourself, “If I could live through
that, can I handle just about anything this new goal throws my way?”
The truth is, you’ve already come through this event and received gifts
from it that you use all the time. How can they help, from this point on, with
your new goals? Let this goal trauma story transform into your hero story.
Sometimes challenges are put in your path to strengthen and prepare you
for what’s coming next; you need to learn some lessons before you’re ready to
take on your true goals and be the hero of your mission!
For every single ‘goal’ that didn’t work out as planned, there is a
powerful and positive message you can take from it.
Ask “When I look at this again now, what are all of the positive reasons
(that I couldn’t see then) that this happened?”
NOW, this requires you to be willing to see the positive reasons – only
when you are willing to do this, brilliant things are revealed and your entire
negative energy around that situation shifts and raises and empowers you.
More info about ‘Goal Trauma’ from Margaret Lynch at