Saturday, August 23, 2014

Being and Sense of Love






Continued from: “Alternative to Ego and Self”


Alongside with our 5 usual senses: Vision, Hearing, Touch, Smell and Taste we have another very important one: it is the Sense of Love.

You can find some explanation about our senses in articles “NLP: How to Read People” from this blog.

Everybody has it. In most people it manifests itself almost unconsciously when they do what they like and think about what they are fond of.


This very feeling makes us human, especially when we are aware of every moment of loving or enjoying things and people we feel affection for.

When we are aware, conscious and understand what we like and why we do it by enjoying, we become beings.

Unlike ego-centered personalities, fighting for being appreciated, admired and valued, as beings, we do things for the pleasure of doing them. This is the highest level of living.

What is love?

It is comfort, a gorgeous feeling of ease and relaxation. It comes from




food



beautiful things you love,




furniture,







rooms,


houses



and environments we place ourselves or choose to be.



Comfort also comes from people, in whose presence you do not play roles or demonstrate yourself…



These are people, who sincerely listen to you, understand you, admire you and your achievements.



They never interrupt you with boasting about their own results.



Make a cup of coffee




Or tea



Enjoy your drink and think of people who are dear to you or give you an incredible comfort of your being…

Love is silent and relaxing…

It melts the showy ego and makes you very human…

To be continued…

Natalia Levis-Fox

Alternative to Ego and Self








‘Ego’ and ‘Self’ are often used as synonyms. Actually, there is nothing wrong with them. They underline our uniqueness and individuality as opposed to other people. More than that, they defend us from somebody else’s attacks and influence. You love Yourself, you enjoy your success and gains, you admire Yourself and are proud of your achievements. (And nobody knows your talents, because you are closed, as there is no one better in the the world than you).

You demonstrate Yourself and your skills for others to see and value them. In other words, you continue to show Yourself  and prove how good you are… the way you did in your childhood, right?

The other ‘Selves’ compare themselves with yours and compete with you… A very nice repeated circle in the game: “Who is better here?”

When you lose in this game. i.e. there appears somebody better than you, your Ego makes you feel awful.

The worse you feel about Yourself, the more your Ego is able to persuade you into traps - be that disappointment, fear, guilt, judgment, victimhood, control, drama, blame, sabotage, superiority / inferiority, etc.

Your Ego is constantly demanding. It eats your attention, by talking to you. It makes you drink alcohol and boast. In other words, it controls your life.

More than that, it spoils your lovely relationships. The Ego is mighty resistant of love... Formed at the earlier period of your life, the Ego has no flexibility. It certainly allows you to have sex, but in a primitive way, as Ego notices only itself (‘I was great in bed with her’, it tells). That is why egoistic people are poor lovers and do not bother to deliver wonderful sensations to their partners.

You may ask: can this primitive and commanding Ego be terminated? Or, what is the alternative to Self-love-centered-way of life?

Yes! You can create your highest being. We all know the term ‘human’being’.

It can be done out of your intent and overgrow your Ego.

To be continued…

Related article from this blogMen: Ego, Self Love, Appreciation… What Else?



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Thursday, August 21, 2014

For Men: How To Make Her Yours








What makes any woman  feel incredibly happy?
Your sincere whisper in her ear: “You are so beautiful!”

…and she is yours!

Natalia Levis-Fox

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

How Often Do You Feel Happy?






Tell me, how often did you smile happily yesterday? Did you feel happy in the morning, daytime or evening? How about this morning?

Who makes you happy? ...Even in memory…

What makes you happy?

Alcohol does not give happiness, only people and several things you love…

When you are happy, you smile and look dreamy. It is clearly visible by others.

When you are happy, nothing disturbs you. The obstacles and silly people seem funny and unimportant.

You feel flying…

Did you make somebody happy today?

“You know that you are able to receive happiness by giving happiness. That is the only way to experience happiness. You can’t give others happiness when you are experiencing unhappiness, which makes you even more unhappy. That is why you want to get out of a rut as soon as possible, and find things to feel happy about, so that you can express happiness to others as well.” Enoch Tan


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