Continued from
Part 1
Part 2
Today we shall
speak with you about two very important things, concerning love, sex and
lovemaking. It is what we call ‘fucking’ and ‘loving’. Both things are good.
Nevertheless, they differ in quality.
‘Fucking’ as pure sex – lust expression-
is more like eating simple food (whatever you can find) for the reason of being ‘hungry’. It brings
more ‘mechanical’ satisfaction, i.e. stomach is filled, rather than pleasure in
all our human aspects.
‘Loving’ is more like a complex pleasure of enjoying tasty,
delicious and juicy food, every portion of it. Lovemaking is more like erotic
love, which encompasses such human aspects as delight of communication prior to
intimate relationship, warmth, mutual understanding, total approval, absence of
criticism and complete partner’s acceptance; incredible comfort in each other’s
presence, joy and happiness, the feeling of ‘flight’ and easiness, desire to
prolong contact in every form.
Erotic love
expresses itself long before the sexual act as it is. It manifests itself with
absolute friendly atmosphere between the two, the loving eyes of your partner, caressing
your face, hands and appearance with affection, even without physical touch.
You completely forget
about yourself! You stop wondering about what your partner thinks about you, or
what impression you produce. You stop demonstrating yourself and play ‘do-I-look-good-for-you’ sort of games.
Erotic love
combines both lust and incredible fondness, which we call ‘romantic love’ and
long-term pair formation for pleasure being together.
The thing is that
our bodies immediately recognize the best sexual and soul partner for us,
before this information gets to our conscious understanding.
In the presence of
our best love partner, even admiring their photographs, our nature releases a
bouquet of substances through body, blood and brain. That is why we feel
wonderful, looking forward to meet our beloved person.
Erotic lovemaking
brings the partners into the state of ecstasy, when every touch, caressing
lifts them to amazing mutual delight, lasting long…
After this highly agreeable
sex love shameless experience, partners feel fascinating long lasting
happiness. It all makes them impossible to part with each other.
If you have
experience in reading and understanding scientific research on neurobiology to
find the proofs and get the holistic picture of natural love processes, you can
use the reference list of articles at the bottom of this post.
Next time we shall
discuss “Pleasure” and “Violence”, their origin as the result of “Sensory
Deprivation” from childhood across different cultures.
If you have
difficulties in experiencing ecstatic feelings because of your shyness, we can
talk over the phone and open your wonderful erotic love potential.
Just imagine, how
your fantastically beautiful sensations will make your sex-love-making
experience satisfying… before you decide to call.
I wish you all the
pleasure you desire,
Natalia Levis-Fox
On-line
consultations
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Scientific references
- Bartels Andreas and Zeki Semir, The neural basis of romantic love, NeuroReport 11:3829±3834, 2000.
- Cabanac M., Emotion and phylogeny. Jpn J Physiol 1999 Feb; 49(1):1-10.
- Cantor JM, Binik YM, Pfaus JG, Chronic fluoxetine inhibits sexual behaviorin the male rat: reversal with oxytocin. Psychopharmacology (Berl) 1999 Jun; 144(4):355-62.
- Cushing BS, Carter CS. Prior exposure to oxytocin mimics the effects of social contact and facilitates sexual behaviour in females. J Neuroendocrinol 1999 Oct;11(10):765-9.
- Fisher H., Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love”. Henry Holt and Company, New York.
- Lane RD, Reiman EM, Ahern GL et al. Am J Psychiatry 154, 926±933 (1997).
- Paradiso S, et al., Cerebral Blood Flow Changes Associated With Attribution of Emotional Valence to Pleasant, Unpleasant, and Neutral Visual Stimuli in a PET Study of Normal Subjects. Am J Psychiatry 156:1618-1629, October 1999.
- Salamon, E., Esch, T., STEFANO, G.B. Role of amygdala in mediating sexual and emotional behavior via coupled nitric oxide release. Acta Pharmacologica Sinica 2005 Apr; 26 (4): 389-395.
- Smock T, Albeck D, Stark P, A peptidergic basis for sexual behavior in mammals. Prog Brain Res 1998;119:467-81.
- Turner RA, Altemus M, Enos T, Cooper B, McGuinness T Preliminary research on plasma oxytocin in normal cycling women: investigating emotion and interpersonal distress. Psychiatry 1999 Summer; 62(2):97-113.
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