You at Your Best (Part II)

Continued from You at Your Best (Part I)

http://natalia-levis-fox.blogspot.ru/2015/02/you-at-your-best-part-i.html

Now, when you had selected the wonderful unstoppable source of life & the best human qualities for your brilliant personality, organized them in a list, we shall proceed with “You at Your Best”.

Have you inserted ‘Intelligence of the highest order’ in your list? Add, if you missed it. Thanks to your natural intelligence of the highest order, you will be interesting to the best people you like and value. Intelligent people recognize each other immediately, everywhere, very much like skiers, bikers or musicians do.

Stage II

1  Express your gratitude to the worst events, experience and qualities from your past life.

Surprised?

Thanks to your worst experience, you kept looking for the best. It is your personal evolution! It is dynamics that lifts you to the highest excellence, you were born for.

You do not have to suffer or re-experience the worst any longer. Since this moment it gets converted into knowledge, somewhere hidden out from your body.

2  Give up the idea of ‘keeping memory’ in your head and body. Otherwise, fresh and on-ever-going energy from the Wonderful  Source will process your traumatic experience, causing physical pain, past problems revitalizing and sufferings. Your past experience is nothing, but information, knowledge of your personal evolution.

Ask the Wonderful Source to keep this knowledge in its proper place (without disturbing you), as a reference system of how things are not to be for you any longer.

3  The Semantic Core of your beautiful and lovely personality.

‘Semantic’ stands for your own, personal meaning of qualities and you as personality. You have selected them willingly, knowingly and purposefully.

Take a sheet of paper A4 or A5 format and draw a big circle in the middle.

It will be the core of your amazing personality with secret name,

coming from the Wonderful Source

4  Read out loud the chosen personal qualities, rooted in the Source. And express gratitude to the Source for supplying you with the best energy, simultaneously with your preferences.

Tell the Source that you have every right to delete the boring or unneeded traits and create the better ones for your high quality life.

5. Your recognizable personal qualities. Choose a set of qualities, which you want to be readable by the others, all the time. They will constitute you aura.

Personal Qualities Map

Organize around core as many qualities as you love.

You can use different figures, colors, shapes, words.

I developed this graphic method “Personal Qualities Map” many years ago, when I worked in a private clinic for addicted people. This method improved many lives!

6  Enjoy your wonderful personality, by reading this map, re-organizing it, adding or removing qualities, etc. Since you created your own map, you can always  draw it, if you find yourself in different places, far from the original.

 Each time you look at or construct your “Personal Qualities Map”, you experience the highest pleasure, excitement, optimism.

The relationships with different people will visibly improve.

Smile! You are already at your BEST!

Yours,

Natalia Levis-Fox

www.natalialevisfox.com

You at Your Best (Part I)

Continued from:   You vs. Others

http://natalia-levis-fox.blogspot.ru/2015/02/you-vs-others.html

You are reading this article, because you are one of the best people in the world. Surprised?

Only the best people are looking for information and ways (as methods) to become better. The rest of population is usually stuck in the self-admiration as professionals, family members or personalities, they had practiced ages ago. With them you have nothing to discuss as their worlds are stable and predictable.

So, the best has found you!

In a healthy reality of wellness, flourishing and successful people form the best concepts about themselves. By doing this on regular basis, these well-to-do people have the air or aura of prosperousness and comfort around them. The others – accept this shining quality as the fact, treating you accordingly.

So today we shall form your best ‘You-Concept’ with huge or unlimited potential of enrichment. Within this best concept of yourself you will:

1. freely delete boring or unsuccessful elements, qualities, paradigms (i.e. structures of personality)
 
2. add new elements, qualities and paradigms that please you most.

 You will call it ‘I-Concept’

I recommend to skip the notion “Self” because it means automatic generation of initial settings, when you or somebody else (parents, ex) were forming your personality.

Firstly, you choose some secret name or word for this concept. This act is very important, as it sets your own irresistible frequency to your life style, thoughts and understanding of you as a human being and personality. Historically taking secret names was characteristic for monks in different confessions.

Your own secret name will become the core of you-the-best-personality-concept.

 Moreover, it will protect you from foreign interference and influence into your mind and your personal faith of an adult person.

Secondly.  Find or choose the name of Infinite Source, which will constantly supply you as personality and your body with fresh wonderful energy.  You can call it

Divine

God (derived from ‘good’)
 
Miracles

Absolute

The Abstract, etc.

Thirdly, you choose the best qualities that you already have or would like to have as a brilliant personality.

This process of choice will take some time, as you will be trying each quality and the context of their expression.

You can use Chapter Two of my ebook

“Out of Alcohol”

Which contains 200 best human qualities for you to choose the best applicable to you.

You may download it for free from my Publisher’s portal at:

https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/444506

Or, from Google Drive, in PDF, at:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ZefcaNI4GF1ndxC08Ux7Q-1H6agw8KHPdMPOZh6BlsuRL-0S3qRD3JwvsxXv

To be continued…

Enjoy the process of creation!

Natalia Levis-Fox

www.natalialevisfox.com

You vs. Others

Today we shall speak about You and how other people “see” and “understand” You.

Many people depend on the opinions of others. They suppose that these “others” form the attitudes and judgments towards them.   In other words, somebody else’s opinion becomes the ‘real you’. What is worse, this foreign estimation bothers and tortures you. You try to prove that you are better than that, etc, etc, etc.

If you think that you are not “good enough” for somebody else or social group you belong to,  then they treat you the way you think about yourself, backed by ‘not good opinion’ from somebody else.

Here is the scientific experiment, conducted by researchers from Ohio in 1993. Scientists applied big ugly scars on women-volunteer’s faces with makeup.

After women had seen their dreadful faces in mirror, they were told to go out and meet unknown people.  Under the pretext of fixing and refreshing makeup, all scars were removed. Unaware of this, women went out to public.

When they were back, all women reported that they were treated awfully, with different degrees of discrimination. They could even remember words and terrible emotions directed towards them.

In other words, the pure knowledge about their ugly faces with scars, made all women experiment -participants feel terrible victims of discrimination.

This experiment vividly illustrates the importance of our self-knowledge and self-concepts in our everyday lives.

In a healthy reality of wellness, flourishing and successful people form the best concepts about themselves. By doing this on regular basis, these well-to-do people have the air or aura of prosperousness and comfort around them. The others – accept this shining quality as the fact, treating you accordingly.

Think of it before going to bed.

Tomorrow we shall learn how to create your own opinion in its highest expression

(and not to become a cock-sure idiot)

Life is experiment!

Natalia Levis-Fox

www.natalialevisfox.com