Sunday, September 1, 2013

Children: Humiliation vs. Self-Worth

Continued from “Black Humor

Why do grown-ups humiliate and beat children?

Probably, because being superior, they are dissatisfied with their personal life and never experienced what we call with you “lovely relationships”. 
Irrelevant to the reason of physical violence and psychological brutality, deep traces of humiliation can remain for lifetime, both in body and soul. The mentality of abused people can express itself either as mindset of ‘a victim’ or a ‘fighter’.  These polar types bring forward a lot of physical and psychical discomfort.

Repeated violence and fears low down kids’ self-worth.

In psychology, self-worth or self-esteem includes a person's subjective appraisal of himself or herself as intrinsically positive or negative to some degree (Sedikides et al., 2003; Sedikides & Gregg, 2004).Self-esteem involves both self-relevant beliefs (e.g., "I am competent/incompetent", "I am liked/disliked") and associated self-relevant emotions (e.g., triumph/despair, pride/shame).

I myself was humiliated and beaten by leather belt often. My well-to-do family together with school predicted me a future in prison. When I grew up, I understood that my parents’ house was a real prison, where they tried to beat off my spirit of freedom and make me

…an obedient sheep…

It took years to get rid of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) traces, emotional reactivity and physical pain.

Research states that children with higher intelligence in early age appear to have reduced risk of post-traumatic stress disorder later. 

‘Overcoming’ fears consciously can bring forth plenty of side effects. There are methods that can heal all traces of fears and PTSD within one hour (!) by using and forming intelligence (skill). Applied in childhood, these methods raise self-worth and personal competence in dealing with harmful situations.

In July 2013 Smashwords Inc published my ebook for children

The fast method embedded in this fairy tale had helped thousands of people to be free from their unhealthy imagination and fears. Your child’s curious mentality will take this method automatically in consideration for further practice in their everyday life. Nobody deserves to suffer. Enjoy marvels with Foxic and his friends with your kids.

Most of personages are just fluffy toys 

you can buy in the nearest shop. 

You can easily heal all your child’s fears yourself, like Wise Owl showed Foxic way out from his night horrors, just playing with heroes.

The project is also released as an ebook in PDF + 2 animated slide-films and can be bought at my Etsy shop

This healing method had been animated also for adult people. It will be discussed with my colleagues at the World MedtechForum Lucerne (17-19 September, 2013) in Switzerland.

So, if you need to heal yourself, family members, colleagues and friends, suffering from PTSD, fears and phobias fast and safely at home, wait till October.

Love and peace to you,
Natalia levis-Fox

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