I have an unfinished book.
I put it aside, because I did not have the satisfying answers about real origin of pain, though an extended scientific research had been made. I found the missing answers thanks to recent my consultations of patients with
- Phobias & fears
- Post traumatic stress disorders (PTSD).
There are very effective methods, which heal these problems within 1-2 sessions. Nevertheless, free from these disturbances, people continue experience acute pain, uneasiness and dissatisfaction with their lives, unable to change for better.
More than that, the final key in understanding the origin of pain, depression and alcoholic addiction came from lesbian couples. For the last two months, among other clients I consulted two lesbian couples who had huge problems in relationships.
From biological point of view, heterosexual relationships are the best.
Males are physically referred to “+”,
Females to “-“
Sooner or later, in homosexual types of relationships, be those lovers or couples, comes the crisis of mismatching. Singly charged systems repel!
Male + Male energy and physiology
Female + Female energy and physiology
fight and fend off! As these unions are formed against laws of nature.
Why do people violate these natural laws? Pain and loneliness drive them to find excellent human relationships, understanding, appreciation and sexual fulfillment.
In real world, this category of people failed to find a pair, matching them in all aspects of life.
Likewise, in unhappy and lasting relationships in family or dating, people get physical pain from Nature itself as a marker that this lifestyle is wrong. Thus, it urges people to look for better partners.
The same thing happens to lonely males and females, who keep themselves from marriage or lovely relationships for the fear of being hurt or making a mistake!
Instead, they look for and enjoy purely sexual relationships to keep fit. Very often they actively avoid human relationships with their partners (like primitive animals).
Anyway, when the soul mate is found,
pain disappears, leaving space for happiness and incredible comfort of being together.
There are two types of biological love: male and female. In physical world opposite charges attract each other. There comes the annihilation or neutralization of potential; as the result, each system begins to function in dynamically peaceful states.
Joined together, Love manifests itself in explosion of wonderful feelings & sensations
Number One reason for existing pain
is the absence of the best partner or soul mate as a perfect match for lovely, satisfying life in all its aspects
What Is the Soul Mate?
Voluntary or involuntary men and women search for their ‘halves” or ‘soul-mates’. To understand what it is, let us take the analogy with apples and consider what the ‘mismatching’ is.
Suppose, these are two admirable people - a man and a woman. They are nice, talented, sexy, good-looking, intelligent and possess other human super qualities.
However, living or married together they makes them unhappy. To support their ‘couple-being’ or ‘social image of a decent family’, they:
- play games;
- quarrel often;
- find faults with each other;
- feel displeased, disappointed and unsatisfied;
- try to dominate over each other;
- look for better relationships outside family or their union;
- often tell lies to each other;
- accuse each other;
- pretend to be a happy couple,
each of them, nevertheless, remaining just a nice person, out of family context.
On the contrary, soul mates, no matter how different they may seem at first
…make a lovely unity…
- feel comfort in each other’s presence;
- miss each other, when part temporarily;
- live and communicate in a very friendly atmosphere;
- enjoy each other’s company;
- have a lot of common interests;
- support each other;
- feel sincerely happy, when their partner gains success;
- joke and mock at each other friendly;
- take genuine care of each other, especially in non-favorable situations;
- never interfere in private space, time and activities of a partner;
- cook for each other with pleasure;
- easily find topics for discussion, so they never feel bored together.
To be continued…
Other articles from this blog can assist you in defining and attracting lovely relationships and soul mate:
“Neuroscience: Trust & Attractiveness Recognition”